Am I wrong? someone please help🙁

I'm 20 years old, I'm due June 15 and I'm pregnant by my ex.. We were together 3 years and for the last 8 months we've been kinda on again and off again. We broke up just a few days before I found out that I was pregnant, at first I didn't believe it so I took 3 test and went to the doctor just to make sure and all tests came back positive. When I told him he was shocked at first then he came onboard we got back together and decided that we were going to be a family and do this together because we both do very much so love each other but since then all we have done is argue, we just can't get along because he tried to control me and he is super insecure and he's manipulative that's why I broke up with him in the first place but I thought the baby would change him but now I'm almost 4 months into this pregnancy and he still can't get it together. We had come up with a plan and we were going to get an apartment, do our best to get along, and raise our child together and whatever happens as for as him changing us getting along and getting back together we were just going to let happen we weren't going to force it. But with that he came up with some conditions and rules I had to follow in order for us to move in together, first off he wanted to move away like away from our family or my family and friends to another city or state and when we moved he didn't want me to be in contact with my friends, meanwhile these are the people that have been there for me and are supporting me through this.. when I told him I wanted to stay in the city and I wasn't going to stop talking to my friends he got upset and told me that everything could just be so easy but I make things hard for myself and that I am choosing my friends over him and I'm not I don't feel like it's fair of him to come to me with some conditions I have to follow in order for us to get an appointment together and be a family I don't understand what my friends have anything to do with that.. can someone please tell me am I wrong? I could really use some advice and outside opinions..