I've been having issues with having sec since I lost my virginity which was two years ago. Whenever I get fingered with more than on figure it hurts, and I can't have actual sex for long because it hurts. I'm not really sure what to do about this. Does anyone else have this issue? Do y'all think I'm just small or what? It's really getting frustrating. Also I'm a big girl, so I don't know if that has anything to do with it or not?