Lisa • Mother of three. Had first child when 19. She had a heart defect and other birth defects but is doing great now. Then had cayden two and half years later and finally my baby boy Skylar 2 years later.
My husband and I are expecting our second child in July, I'm about 9 weeks, our first pregnancy with my son was hell emotion wise we drifted so far apart fought all the time to the point of him being emotionally abusive, but when son was born he was fine and an amazing dad to my son, now I'm pregnant again and he says he will be different this time he wants to experience the pregnancy with me, and enjoy it, we'll we aren't fighting or anything like that but even after I have told him many times how I feel I can't get him to "bond" with the baby, he doesn't rub my stomach doesn't talk to baby yes I know baby doesn't have ears but I do and it helps me emotionally to see his excitement he hasn't even said hi to the baby once..and I just cry so much about it and I just am I overreacting or is this normal for guys not to be attached to a pregnancy.
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