Wine?

Went to dinner with my sister in law yesterday and she ordered a bottle of wine with dinner, and poured me a cup. I declined and reminded her I'm pregnant, in which she said "it's okay to drink wine every now and then when pregnant, everything in moderation". I looked up a few articles on it and they all said it was fine as long as it didn't exceed 2 glasses a week. I didn't drink it yesterday, but I know there will be some at Christmas dinner so I'm kinda wondering if anyone knows if it's safe? Do you plan on having a glass with Christmas dinner, or are you steering clear until May? I'm still undecided, may just wait to ask my doctor his opinion at my next appt. I miss my wine guys. 😅