My partner took me out for date after I told them I have a std. I think he gave it to me instead and he feels guilty especially since he saw how bad I was blaming myself.
My last partner and I stop seeing each other around the ending of sep. I was checked 6months before that and I was clean. My ex would wait until I was asleep to have unprotected sex with me. After a month of waking up to him doing this to me after I told him to stop I left. He had cheated with a guy and a girl around July and march .( says he only let the guy do oral on him) around October I have a new partner who was always my best friend he dated one girl for 6years. He said they wore protection because she was kind of sleeping around on him a lot. So I was the first person he was "unprotected with."
So I found out I have chlamydia and I feel horrible because I think I may have gotten it from ex and gave it to my new partner at least that what I thought.
My bf reaction bothers me a bit because he's very light hearted about it. Doesn't blame me doesn't think it's something he should be upset about I know he loves me and doesn't look at me anyway different but I still would feel slightly upset. I asked him if he regretted not waiting and he says no he would have sex with me now if I would have let him.
We have been together for the past couple of months. My doctor thinks I got it just a couple of weeks ago. He's the only guy I been with. Since sep.
He told me his ex would take off the condom but he would stop and never did anything after that. I believed him until he told me he had a yeast infection before and that his ex used some "special prescribed soap to use on her lady parts and only that."
To my knowledge guys only get yeast infections after having sex with a partner with one unprotected.
I'm getting my meds soon and him and I are going to get a complete testing panel done also bloodwork.
I'm just thinking he may have lied to me especially because he took me out on a date. Bought me gifts and then broke down crying to me that he loves me and he doesn't ever want to lose me.
Which I think is just kind of out the norm especially since lately he stopped doing those things. Maybe this is his guilt.
How should I confront him about me thinking he gave it to me? Any advice helps.
*** it doesn't matter who gave it to who I guess I'm just upset that he would lie about his past especially when it comes to sex.**** it's something we both can move on from but I can't move on if I can't trust what he tells me.
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