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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 1year now, im 17&he's 19. He wanted to propose to me on our one year, but wants to save more money to get a bigger ring. Next year we both want to get married(we already have an apartment together), but i really want to have a baby with him next year when we actually do get married and he tells me he wants a baby with me soon, but idk if its actually going to happen. My mom says we were made for eachother, but i really don't want to have my first kid older than 20.

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You have your whole life ahead of you. Having a baby is no walk in the park.

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Waiting is always best. It all depends though. Keep thinking and talking about it with your SO.

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And ur 17 and he's 19 I think u guys are moving to fast u guys don't need a baby or get married ur young go have fun go to collage or something u guys have ur whole life to have a baby am only saying this bcuz a baby is ur whole life they depend on u for all there needs its not an easy job

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I married at 18, had my first child at 21.  I waited a bit after I got married.  Marriage is hard to begin with, but being newly married has so many challenges. That's why I waited a couple of years before ttc.  After those couple of years, we were better able to care for a baby emotionally and financially.  Our marriage was stronger.  Ultimately you have to follow your heart, but do it sensibly.  You don't have to prove anything to anyone, just make you and your SO happy.  Best wishes!

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Sweetheart, just slow down a tad. It's no joke when people mention that the first year of marriage is incredibly difficult. I'm 26 and just got married in October. We had to make the decision to start having babies immediately so we got pregnant around the same time we got married (I have endometriosis. That's why we rushed into babies.) But let me tell you...first of all, getting used to being married is extreeeemely difficult (and yes, we lived together beforehand.) But to top off being newly married with extreme hormonal changes and emotions, it's 10 times more difficult than I imagined. I'm so happy we did it this way but I'm also SO happy I waited till I was in my mid 20's to get married and start a family. I know it's hard to wait, especially when you know what you want. But I'd recommended at least giving time to have kids. Just slow down and enjoy each other first.

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Why not be together as adults for a while before having a baby? Get your associates degree or some sort of certification, live on your own together, or just on your own! You can definitely grow with your partner and be committed but just take it slow.

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I don't know why, but it bugs me when people say "you have your whole life ahead of you" blah blah blah. If it feels right to you, do it. Getting married and having kids young is fine. They're both huge life changing decisions so make sure you're mind is 100% made up.

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Do what makes you happy! If you are emotionally and financially stable then go for it! If you want to get married then do it:) don't let people's opinions change something you want to do! Just because we are young doesn't mean we want to be out partying,we don't have to discover that and do things we really shouldn't.

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You want time with each other first remember that:)

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I'm reading all these posts and only one of them mention a "job". Seriously you guys are pretty young how are you financially stable..? And you my be financially stable now but when you add another human being to the mix your expenses will rise to the roof.

I mean i don't know where you guys live but I live in Brooklyn, NY and everything is really fucking expensive. Yeah having a baby is great and it's a joyous experience but how about actually affording everything. Everything to The extracurricular  activities, school supplies, food , diapers whatever. Everything costs money.

And it will horribly make a strain in your relationship. 
I think the financial factor needs to be  considered.

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