Love triangle?

So I came home for Winter break and ended up hanging out and hooking up with this guy is known since I was 10, so 9 years later we've got this thing going and we both really like each other, but I have to go back to school which is 200 miles away. I also have this guy that lives less than 40 minutes from my school that I'm staying with for a couple days when I get back....he's mentioned a relationship. 
My problem is I don't know what the fuck to do, guy #1 hasn't said anything about being official, just that he misses me a lot, wants to kiss me, and plans on coming to see me when he can....
Guy#2 is a random that could go somewhere and he lives close by....
I don't know what to do but I don't want to hurt guy #1 and at the same time I want someone that's gonna be there for me, a constant. 
.....also, is this considered cheating if neither have said anything about what we are?