So Frustrated with him

Casey
Ever since my miscarriage a week ago I just want to be loved and spend time with my boyfriend, but we both work a lot. When we get off of work all he wants to do is go to the gym. I understand that it might be his outlet to feel better about it all, but what about what I want and need. I feel like he is being selfish he just always tells me to come with him, but I can't I physically and emotionally am not ready yet. I can barley get through the work days let alone the gym. Am I just being too sensitive or is he being selfish ?