Am I a bad wife....??

Question

17 weeks pregnant and I just don't feel like giving me husband blow jobs.... I used to love it before I got Pregnant..... 
He asks for them and I say no..  I'm just not into it right now... Its grossing me out...  
I feel like if I just do it and I'm not into it... There won't be any passion and there's really no point.. I need some advice ladies.. 
Should I just go ahead and do it or should he respect the fact that I'm just not into it right now!

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He definitely needs to respect it if you say no...

But, that being said, I disagree that there's no point if you're not into it... He's into it, and that's the point! Doing something solely for the enjoyment of another is a wonderful and selfless act. If you do it because you love him and because you know it will make him happy, that's reason enough sometimes.

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He should respect you ! If youdon't want to do it you don't have to, it's not gonna kill him not to be getting a blow job !!

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No, you're not a bad wife. He needs to understand and respect you. Don't feel guilty or bad. A lot if work goes into pregnancy

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You are not a bad wife at all! It is obviously bothering you especially if you used to love them. Perhaps give him one spontaneously when you are more "in the mood". I know when I am feeling like I want to and he happens to ask *boom* out of the mood simply because I wanted to do it for him, not because he asked me to do it. I feel much better when I can surprise him with one.

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Only do it because you want to! I'm sure he would understand if you told him that it just doesn't sound appealing while your pregnant. Just like I'm sure foods you once loved now make you throw up. Tell him you'll give him a sexy handy! Lol

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U r not the only person that goes through that it happens to me to my bf will ask for blow jobs but there are times that I don't feel like giving him one at first I felt bad and he did get mad now he will ask for them and if I say no its a no and he totally understands that. So u r not a bad wife.

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He needs to respect that you just don't want to and arnt into it right now! Not a bad wife at all.

Am I a bad wife....??

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