In reality, there's no such thing as being a virgin. Virginity is based on the idea that if a girl hasn't had sex before, her hymen will tear and she will bleed the first time she has sex, then never again. This is a lie! Ladies, your hymen can tear when you stretch, ride a bike, do the splits, anything. Sex isn't the only time it will happen and it won't be the last. When you "lost your virginity", it probably wasn't the first time your hymen was torn. It happens all the time. And some women bleed after their first time, some don't. There are a lot of variables with that. So "popping her cherry" may not happen. Virginity is sexualized by people everywhere. But really, it's a myth. And saving yourself for marriage can hurt your body. If a woman has little to no sexual stimulation of her sex organs over a prolonged period of time, her natural lubrication can dry up and make sex painful. Take care of yourselves, ladies! It's your sex life and no one else's, so it's up to you how any sexual partners you have, how often you have sex, etc.