I feel like antidepressants have ruined my libido.

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Earlier this year I was diagnosed with depression and went through 3 different medications. None of them were right for me as I got extreme emotional side effects and as of now am not medicated. I feel like there's no way the meds can still be in my system, it's been months since I've taken them, but I feel like my already low libido was destroyed by these medications. The doctors can't seem to help me they just want to feed me more antidepressants which I do not want. I'm only mildly depressed and feel like a full blown antidepressant is to much for me and would maybe do better with a mood stabilizer. 
Has anyone else ever had this happen? How did you get past it? My fiancé is very understanding but it's frustrating for both of us when sex only happens a couple times a month. I just feel like my body has shut my sex drive down.