best friend?!

Question

Okay so I've had this best friend since I was about 5, I'm going to the 21 soon. She has a boyfriend of 5 years, things are a little rocky between them. She's always been that goody goody Christian girl who went to clubs but never did anything bad. I left to the army and now all of a sudden she's talking to other guys constantly, wearing overly low cut shirts, trying to show as much cleavage as possible, always getting overly drunk with new friends, sending and posting indecent snapchats to me and her story, and I'm pretty sure she is cheating.. I don't want to loose my friend but she's becoming a person I don't know, what do I do? Nothing, talk to her? What.. 😔

Answer

Express your worry about her recent actions and that you care about her and don't want her sending the wrong impressions to the wrong kind of people. All you can do is be honest and if that doesn't work then it's not your fault and maybe you'll just have to end the friendship of it really makes you that uncomfortable and don't want associated with that kind of behavior.

Answer

Maybe she's just realized that she's not a goody two-shoes and decided to experiment being her new self. I don't think you should criticize her for being "too slutty", after all it's her body and her business wha she does with it. You can ask her what brought on such a sudden change in personality and style if you feel worried that something bad has happened to her. Ask her if she and her bf are all right.

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