So I'm 23 and had sex for the first time about three weeks ago....we didn't use a condom but he didn't come inside me. In fact we didn't even finish just because he could tell I was so nervous. He stopped and asked if I was alright and we just ended up cuddling. Which is one of the reasons I love him so much, because he can always tell when something's off with me. Anyways I was so worried about getting pregnant. Yes, some people say there's no way precum can get you pregnant, but others have kids and say it was Precum that did it. Regardless I was so scared for the past three weeks I prepared myself for the worst. I'm happy to say I started my period today. I want kids but right now I'm in no position to have any children in my life. My point is, if you're going to have sex, USE PROTECTION. Save yourself weeks of torture waiting for that beautiful, BEAUTIFUL red present.