Can my baby be born with mental illnesses or abnormalities due to me having so much arguments, fights, stress and depression? I'm living a hell with my baby's dad and I'm worried it could harm my baby. I'm 10 weeks 5 days with my 4th child. I never had such a crappy pregnancy before. I haven't been able to enjoy this moment, I'm just so sad all the time and hurt. I can't do this anymore.... :(