Sex Problems with Husband
About a year ago, I got pregnant and my husband thought it was the worst thing in the world. We wound up deciding to have an abortion. (No rude comments please. That's personal between us and that's not what this is about). Now- a year later- every time we have sex he asks me "is this okay? I don't want a repeat of last time." We do want children in a few years, just not anytime soon. I'm on the pill and we also use the rhythm method- don't have sex in the fertile window. (And yes I know that's pointless since I'm on the pill. It just makes him feel better). He still worries about it like it's the end of the world. I can't take it anymore. I told him last night that I'm doing everything I can and if he's still worried then he can wear a condom or use spermicide. It's killing me to have to relive the abortion every time we have sex because of his worry. It's hurting me and our sex life. I just can't take this anymore. I have no clue what to do to make him feel at ease. Please help!
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