I haven't had sex in... Almost 6 months? Now that's out of the way...

Hello! I'm a 21 year old single college girl, still living with the parents, who are against premarital sex so all around it's just difficult to meet my needs 🙄... Condoms are my method of birth control and I've never been on the pill because my parents would've been super suspicious (I mean, they wouldn't be wrong but I'm not really trying to piss them off or get kicked out of the house just yet 😞).

Anyways, I'd been feeling extra, extra horny around the end of December. On the 22nd, I slept with a friend with benefits (fwb) and on the 23rd I slept with a different fwb. Fwb1 is 6 in and girth-y(?) and fwb2 is just around 5.5 in and avg girth. I bled on round two with fwb1 but round 1 was fine. I peed both times, (trying to avoid UTIs) and both times hurt. Yes, I went to round two even though it hurt to pee because I was super horny... I know, priorities 😥

I think that was just because of size and apparently I was "pretty tight". The bleeding stopped a couple hours afterwards and the pain was gone.

Next day, I met up with fwb2 and we had a quickie. It was my first time having a quickie and that was probably the only time I've ever been glad that I get wet easily, usually I'm just embarrassed. Towards the end, there was blood on the condom but not like a crime scene. It's kind of hard to describe how much but it was like.. If I'd bled that amount on a panty liner, I wouldn't be freaking out. There was some pain and blood so we stopped at round 1 and I had to haul ass to get home for other stuff.

So I'm posting this on the 11th/10th day after having sex, respectively. I know I included a lot of details and that's mainly because I've been spotting ever since. There's no pain whatsoever, not even when I have to forcefully pee. When I wipe there's blood, mostly red but no blood mixed with my urine.

We used new condoms every round and my period doesn't start until 11 more days but I've been thinking of getting a pregnancy test, just in case. Vaginal tears had been a possibility but it's been 11/10 days. I'm just speculating that those should've healed by now. The spotting has been at a relatively consistent amount of 1 tsp at most? I've been on panty liners and had no worries of leaking. If it wasn't unhygienic and gross, I'd probably only need to use one panty liner for the entire day because of the fairly small amount of blood.

This is my question: Has anyone ever spotted for this long after having sex in a while? What were the results, pregnancy, vaginal tears, or other scary stuff?

UPDATE: Turns out, I have PCOS and I am now on birth control~

And my pregnancy tests both came out to be negative, so now I'm just trying to adjust to the emotional roller coaster these pills are giving me...😭

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