Part 2: when he makes you choose...don't pick him

I wrote a previous BF (ex now) moved away and wanted me to move down  south to be with him, until I got a job offer. I told him about it and he kept bothering me to choose either him or a job. (After I offered him to come back to NY told me he won't because he wants a relationship with his father. Which I totally respected)
 You can't help who you love but you can always find another lover. Foh! 😂 I need support , anything else/less is not needed from the pity party.