I had a pretty easy pregnancy up until about 30 weeks when I started getting really depressed, I cried every day, got mad at everything, fought with my fiance all the time, just overall hated life. At 34 weeks I went into preterm labour and had to stay in the hospital for 3 days. I told my fiance I only wanted one kid because I have 2 sisters and my parents didn't have a lot of money so we didn't have nice stuff when we were kids like we didn't have very good Christmas's because my parents couldn't afford to buy much for 3 kids and I want to be able to get my daughter nice clothes and toys since I wasn't able to have that stuff growing up. Everyone in our families is making us feel bad for only wanting one kid saying "oh you can't just have one!" Or "she'll get lonely! Don't torture her like that!" And it's starting to hurt my feelings and no matter what I say, they won't stop :/ I don't know what to do or say to make them stop. Any advice would be really helpful