When are you having your baby shower?

I really wanted mine at the end of Feb (due 4/22), but family isn't cooperating with me. I feel like I'm overreacting, but for once I wanted people to accommodate me and not the other way around! Is 3/18 too close to the due date? That might be when it has to happen. We don't plan to purchase anything until after the shower, so I'm a little anxious. I'm ready to start prepping a nursery!