Fear of dating?

I might just be the only person but now I have a fear of dating people because of my past relationships. I've been mentally abused, cheated on, lied too and left after taking my virginity saying "he would stay with me forever". Whenever guys try to talk to me now I'm very distant because I'm just so scared to be hurt again... 😞I hope this is a phase.. has anyone else been through this? I can't shake it off.