paps?

Kaitlin
What age should you get a pap? I was told I don't need one from the nurse practitioner till I'm 23. I'm 19, I'm sexually active, & ive had a miscarriage. Also would you suggest a male or female? I've heard some god awful horrible stories today online and at work about their awful obgyn's. Idk, any help, advice, or encouragement will help!