I started seeing this guy a few months ago and he is PERFECT. Flew states away to surprise me for the holidays, surprises me with he sweetest sentiments, and is an all around sweetheart. Seriously, no complaints but one. The sex really isn't there. On his end it is.. but on my end it isn't. I was in and out of a toxic relationship with someone for about three years and he was a little more "gifted" in the sex organs department than the new guy. I went from about 8 inches to a little more than half of that.. Anything I can do to compensate? I don't want to tell New Bae he just doesn't do it for me sexually because I adore him and I don't want to embarrass him.. but great sex is really important to me. The foreplay is awesome, but people don't show up to the movies just to watch the previews if you know what I mean.