Your first time shouldn't hurt!

I saw this picture and wanted to share it. I thought I was supposed to bleed and it would be painful and so did my boyfriend. Since i didn't bleed and it wasn't painful he doubted I was a virgin and made me feel bad and upset. I felt like something was wrong with me. I know there's a lot of young girls on here that are around my age and younger (I'm 17) that don't know this and I don't want any of you to feel less than because it didn't hurt or you didn't bleed.