Different sex drives, what do I do?

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I'm 22 years old and my boyfriend is 23. We have been dating for 2 years. We have completely opposite sex drives. I need sex at least 4 times a week and he could seem to maybe want it once a month, MAYBE. What should I do?

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I tried for 11 years. I wasted 11 years. Lol your needs are important. Not that I'm saying sex is everything but sex is important:)

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I mean it's up to you how happy you are with him with sex or not. My bf never wants to have sex and I do a lot. And I just learned to deal with it just because I do love him and we have a really good relationship besides that. We've been together for 3 years. Which can be really hard on me sometimes. But I just figure it outs

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Need is a strong word, no one dies from lack of sex.

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If i had sex once a month I'd probably leave. 😂 That's not something I'd stay and put up with. Me and my guy both have needs, and if I'm meeting his and he's not meeting mine it's a no go. Good thing my guys always down for sex.

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Talk to him about it if you really want the relationship to work. Maybe see if he can do once a week? Though if he feels he can't, you'll have to decide whether you can handle not having sex very often or not. Though honestly, as time goes on, his lack of sex drive will drive you insane. My ex had a lower sex drive than me and it frustrated me. Sex isn't everything of course, but I like having it.

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Communicate

Different sex drives, what do I do?

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