Cancer sun, Aries moon, Aries rising

Sa
I've recently gotten into astrology and I love it. I'm a Cancer, but I'm also Aries moon, Aries rising and feel like I identify with Aries much more than Cancer- however I do have some pretty obvious Cancer themes.
I'm feeling frustrated because now I understand some conflicts in my life but I dont know what to DO with the information.
For example, I've always had this need to put down roots and develop deep connections with others (Cancer), but I've also always had this passionate desire to flee- to wander, run, to never settle down, to be a nomad (Aries). I feel like these are major themes in my life that are quite conflicting. 
I know this about myself- now what? What do you do with the information you gain from your natal chart? How do you calm your heart and settle conflictions once you understand them?