So I'm living on my own and am married and my mother has chosen to leave town for Christmas and New Years and finally comes back and blames me for the mess my sister made in the house because she lives there with her dog. And then says I'm fat also because she's mad.(Mexican mother keep in mind) she's driving me up the wall and I can't stand being around her lately I need healthy boundaries but it's sooo dang hard because we are Mexican and she's so difficult to communicate with! Any suggestion how to cope with this as an adult? Should I just let it go as always or talking about boundies?!!! Any suggestions?