Why won't men admit when they cheat?

Question

Especially when they bring you an STD? How the hell can they still deny ever cheating when you both have an STD and your health records prove that it wasn't you?  I guess it true that some men will lie even I you catch them in the act smh! Unreal

Answer

When I was 21 I dated a guy who ended up giving me Clamydia. He blamed me and broke up with me etc. I knew I didn't have it before because I had been tested but of course I kept blaming myself and thinking they must have missed it. Well, come to find out, he was cheating!!!  I found out through a friend. Years later (like 15 years later) he messaged me on Facebook apologizing for what he did. POS. I never responded. He even tried to friend me. Unbelievable. Like it's going to make everything better. Sheesh.

Answer

Or the STD can lie dormant for years, especially in men.

My husband and I were together 3 years before conceiving our first child. No way he was cheating. When we conceived, I had testing done and came back positive. Turns out my husband did too. The nurse told me that clearly one of us stepped out on each other and infected the other.  Absolutely. It true. When my OB found out, she laughed her ass off because she couldn't believe it. She knows my husband and I very well. Some STDs can be dormant, especially in men, for many years. There is no way my husband had the opportunity, time, or energy to cheat. Aside from that, many many years later, we are still deliriously happy with our marriage and 3 kids.

The question is, why don't your trust him?

Why won't men admit when they cheat?

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