Criticized for "letting" him go to the strip club

A friend of my fiance when through a break up. His friend wanted to go to the strip club and I encouraged him to go, but all the other girlfriends told their guys they weren't "allowed" to go. I got bitched at for disrespecting myself and not caring about my relationship enough??? I love my man more than anything and I don't need to prove it, and I trust him 100%. I know he wouldn't disrespect me by doing anything he shouldn't. I know he would never hurt me. Honestly I think I look at more women than he does and I'm always pointing out good butts to him (I can't be the only one😂). I know not everyone is comfortable with the situation but I don't see why I need to get criticized for it!