Does anyone get fed up of people asking if your pregnant yet?

Question

My husband & I got married 6 months ago & have been TTC for 4 months. I am really starting to get fed up of people asking me why I'm not pregnant yet? My Nanna keeps asking when I'm giving her a great grandchild. My uncle asks when is he getting a great nephew. We went out the other week & he kept following me to the bar & trying my drink just to see if it was water ( i drink vodka&sprite)

Twins run in my husbands family & his mum keeps saying I'm going to have twin boys all the time. And the worst is my father in law!! Asking me why I'm not fat yet? Why is there no baby in my belly? Asking when I'm giving him a grandson (he has 5 grandaughters) & the latest is, rubbing my belly and asking if I'm pregnant.

I know we've only been TTC not that long & I hope it happens soon. I don't think I can cope with people questioning me any longer!!

Anyone else feel the same??

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Same boat. My husband and I got married in June and every holiday party we were asked at least 5 times. My sister even taught her twins to say cousin lol.  Feel like I need to be a hermit until it happens lol

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I hear you!!! Married almost 4 years. Ttc exactly 3 years. All i get is "ugh come on have a kid already", "youre going to be so old when you're finally a mom!" (I'm 30). "What do you think, your career is more important than a family?"  Or my personal fave "thanks for not making me a grandma til I'm way older!"  😭😭😭

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I've been married 6 years and still get questions. Eventually, I just started responding with "not today, but someday" it cuts them off easily, but they usually don't push it after that. It's even harder when you haven't told anyone you are trying, and you feel down everytime someone brings up that you aren't pregnant yet.

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When me and my bf go to his families house for a party or anything they always ask. We've been trying for 6 months already so hearing it everytime gets me upset. His cousins, tias and uncles always say when y'all going to have a baby? It hurts though I know it's only been 6 months but still it hurts. I wish you the best baby dust too you! 💕

Does anyone get fed up of people asking if your pregnant yet?

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