I need u mommies opinion

Felicia
So I jus had a son a year ago and had a babyshower...I still have everything from him...I have a boy in may and don't want a babyshower...but my family is giving me a headache about having one...I don't need it..i'm not being selfish or anything..i'm jus not greedy...all I need is diapers and wipes...what do u ladies think I should do?