announcing

I haven't publicly announced yet but I have told family, coworkers, (and try to slip it into casual conversation with random people lol). At the end of September I had a missed miscarriage and I had told the world about 2 weeks before I found out. When I told my family I was pregnant again, it was kind of disheartening to hear "oh were you guys trying". Not any congrats, or positivity, just like a "yea I knew it was gonna happen again". Like thanks guys, I went through a pretty bad experience and am ELATED God blessed me with another opportunity like this, and kinda wish they felt the same. I'm scared to be public about it because now I'm kinda expecting more of those types of reactions. I think maybe because it happened so soon... idk, either way, kinda disappointing