I provide card: myth and reality
Often read stories like guys using "I provide you take care of the house" card. Let's get it straight forward. I provide means: "here is my card, take whatever is nessecary," (clothing, food, house expenses, makeup, care products, fun money, ect.) I said nessecary, not like waste his whole salary on shopping. If this is the case then you agree to set monthly allowance for you.
Then if this is the case, he has a right to say I provide, you take care of the house. Then he has the right to expect you to cook and clean and do chores, ect. Not like he shouldn't help at all, no. But you will be doing most of the house work at home and this will be your job. This is fair.
If you have shared money, ie. you work and he works, therefore, house responsibilities become shared. Therefore, you provide as well and therefore he must do half of the house work. Half of taking care of kids and so on. In this case there is no I provide, but we provide.
There are stories of ladies of previous times, where they worked and took care of kids and cooked, and took care of the house and did everething and the husband just worked. Yap, true. It happened before. But was it fair? Not at all, unless the husband gave all the salary to the woman.
Make it clear: if you as a woman, work, take care of the household, take care of the kids, then why do you need him for? As a furniture? Lol. All the best ladies! Make your points clear and fight for fairness.
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