is he being controlling?

So I've been with this guy for 7 months everything started off great. Minus the fact that I could tell he was lying about small things (like overcompensating bc he was insecure). But I let it go bc I thought he'd knock it off. Now that we're actually committed to one another things have gone downhill fast. He hates when I hang out with my girlfriends. He tries to act like its fine but then when I'm actually out he'll ask me if I'm having fun, I say yes and he gets all in his feelings and starts being short and childish. He said it only bothers him bc I always tell him last minute that I'm going out so I told him 2 days ago that I'm going to hang out with my girlfriends on the 28th he said ok. We went to dinner last night and while we're eating he asks if I'm excited to see my friends. I said I don't know sure because I thought he was trying to start a fight. He then said it's a yes or no question and got mad at me bc of the way I answered. Then proceeded to not talk to me the whole way home. Then he's dropping me off and says that i was being a jerk  and I'm the one that should feel bad and that we were having a nice night and I ruined it. Then says he loves me and couples fight and he's trying to change and he genuinely cared if I was excited to see my friends and that I hurt him bc of my response. I feel like he's trying to manipulate me into feeling like I'm the problem? Am I overreacting?