bf chose alcohol over me

J
Yesterday it was my best friend's birthday. She is also pregnant but her husband wanted to go out to a bar. Even though I did not want to, I agreed to go for one hour. After an hour i asked to leave. My bf was so drunk at this point he blew me off. 20 mins later asked again. Then again. Then again. I went into my car and waited for him. 20 minutes later he comes out, yells at me for making a scene and leaving. I tell him I don't want to talk on the way home so he opens the door and jumps out of the car while I'm driving. 🙄 like seriously??  I am tired and annoyed and want to go home. Finally get him into the car, drive home. I asked him if he would stop drinking because he asks so immature and treats me like crap when he does. His response? I shouldn't have to and we need to break up.  Mind you, this was while he was still drunk.
I am pregnant with his child, we have been together for 5 years, I take care of his son and bought a house with him last year. I pay 1/2 the bills, work full time and do way more for him than a lot of girls I know would ever do. And in exchange he tells me he would rather drink than have me as his gf.
Today he is sucking up to me but wtf. I am seriosuly considering leaving him and putting our house up for sale. This would mean we will probably be indebted in the house by tens of thousands of dollars, if not more and I will barely be able to afford an apartment where I live.
I feel like I'm dating a child when he's drunk.. Would anyone else be as pissed off as I am? Is it unfair to ask a 30 year old man to not drink anymore? 

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