I think I might be gay?

Question

•How many people have realized that they might be a little more gay than they thought while in a long term relationship with the opposite sex?
•What did you do?
Life isn't always as planned and everyone should know that by now, sometimes things happen and there's really no explanation for it. 
•Is it possible to fall in love again while you actually are in love with your SO or at least  "think" you are? 
•Did you come out to your SO or did they find out? 
Anything such as opinions, advice, stories, related to this topic is appreciated.

Answer

1. Its not uncommon to realize youre bisexual later in life. And there is nothing wrong with that. I suspected I was in middle school but was raised by parents who weren't as accepting as I'd like so I didnt fully realize it until I was in my early 20s.
2. Yes it is possible to fall in love while you're in love with someone else. But you will have to make a choice because if you continue to allow yourself to fall in love with someone else you will most likely fall out of love with your current spouse. (unless you are the type of people who can have open relationships...which is possible. I've done it lol)

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I have no experience with being gay but I do have experience with love. It's not possible to be in love with two people. You may feel a fleeting interest in someone else but it takes years to fall in love

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Sexuality can be fluid, so it's perfectly possible to find out your sexuality later or even for it to change throughout your life. It's also possible to develops feelings for another while in a relationship, if you wish to stay with your current partner, have a serious conversation with them about it so they know where you stand. Who knows, maybe polyamory might be something you'd consider, or an open relationship, but if not you and your partner can focus on your relationship and your feelings for one another. 
Other option of course is to break it off and start anew with someone else.

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I've always found women beautiful and enjoyed strip clubs. We've been to the three for 9 years and I suggested to my husband that we explore the swingers scene and he agreed. I've found some couples we played with and we had a fmf three one and that's how I found out that I'm hereroflexible- I'm straight but I do enjoy occasional sexual experience with a woman and find that inviting third or fourth to play with us every now and then enriched our sex life and allowed me to explore my bi side. Hope this helps.

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When I was dating my ex boyfriend was when I realized that I was gay. I knew I was because I wasn't sexually attracted to him and have always been more attracted to girls. But the major reason was that I have always gotten nervous and anxiety when he got a boner which is normal but like mine was to the point where I would just nervously laugh and avoid the situation 😂😂 also this one time when he was trying to make me orgasm by missing my clit and I said to him with the most serious tone and look "what are you doing" 😂😂😂 I find it very amusing now. Anyways, I never told him because he knew I was Pansexual at the time so it didn't bother him and he is also bi so cx. However, a couple weeks later we had broke up so it didn't even matter. I have always had a hard time to fall in love with people after my very first serious relationship but that's because the shit that happened to me traumatized me. Anyways, now I'm in love with my best friend Deanna (she's dating a guy right now R.I.P. My soul) and she likes me back but I will have to wait for the day when we start dating. Point is, is that you can still find love even after you find out how you feel.

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I didn't realize I was bi until I was in ninth grade, and didn't come out to my friends until almost 11th.  
It is common to figure out your sexuality when you're older. It can be a constantly changing thing. 
You also don't have to take a label. You are completely fine never labeling yourself and just being who you are.

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I'm bisexual so I've never had an issue like that 🤔 my SO knows I am attracted to both sexes too. I wish you luck, that seems really scary to be going through.

I think I might be gay?

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