when I give him a BJ

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So everytime I give my boyfriend a BJ, he always gets a pillow and puts it on his chest. I can't see what his face expressions are and he doesn't moan or say anything... 
I told him countless times I don't like it, and it makes me feel like I'm not doing a joke job at it? But whenever we get done, he won't tell me if he liked it or not?.. I ask, and when I do, he always said it felt great and smiles... I don't understand?..

Also recently I just stopped giving him blow jobs/sex, because I am always tired of being the person who initiates when we have sex, like I always always start it.. Touching him, or starts undressing first, or puts his hand down my pants. I'd just wish he started it once in awhile, so I don't feel like I'm being pushy.. Sometimes he won't let me touch him, or he won't want to be in the mood ... So basically I'm giving it back to him is what I mean. Because I just hate being rejected so many dang times or him not making me feel good, again I talked to him countless times about it but it seems he just won't put in the effort.

ANY ADVICE OR ANYONE ELSE GOINGTHROUGH  THIS??

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Honestly the pillow thing is weird and I would throw the pillow off him lol. Maybe he doesn't want you to see his face expressions and he seems awkward about sex in general. Talk to him and ask him if he has any insecurities.

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Sounds like you're hornier than your man lol as am I with my husband. I tell him "babe even if you're not in the mood sometimes you gotta take one for the team!" Lol. The whole pillow thing id just be more agressive and pull the pillow away and say something like "i wanna see your face daddy" or idk something to get his juices ;) flowing lol. I think compromise is your best option. Best of luck!

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Mine wants me to do it underneath the blanket and the first time he told me it felt like his dick was in a cheese grater but apparently I got much better at the end even thought I could get much in my mouth Because he’s not really big but big and I have tonsils shaped like golf balls but when it’s my turn he gets lost and I can never finish so when he goes home I have to finish myself off but that’s besides the point I can’t see his expression either which pisses me off a little and I he doesn’t mown either so it’s a bit hard to tell if he’s trying to make me feel better when I asked if he liked it.

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My old bf used to do the pillow thing too. And when he didn't he would bite his lip. Lol honestly I think it goes back to him trying not to be found masturbating in his room by his mom 😂 And I would suggest next time just go at it yourself. He'll probably be interested to join then😂

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Lol sometimes they grab a pillow or cover their faces because it's too good! And they don't want you seeing their face expressions.

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My boyfriend puts his arm infront of his face when I'm giving him a blow job so I won't see his face, I think nothing of it, he always tells me it was "fucking amazing" I don't see the big deal.

One time I caught him without his arm infront of his face and his whole back was arched and he mumbled "fuck" under his breath

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Well the thing with the pillow may be because he thinks he makes ugly faces or something and doesn't want you to see lol. You guys should definitely sit down and talk about sex. Try to see things from his perspective. Why isn't he in the mood? Has he been working all day? Is he stressed out? Is he distracted?

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I agree with the previous comment. As for the pillow thing some guys do thAf to stop from moaning they clinch or put a pillow over their face.. don't look too deep into that if he didn't like the way u sucked it he would skip over it.. if hold out on pussy and just suck his dick till he learns to keep the pillow off his face lol he only gets pussy when he makes eye contact lol

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