Does your husband not like to go down on you? I've been with my husband for 15 years (since high school) he's never gone down on me he got as close to the tip of his tongue on it for a second then said it wasn't for him. I'm very clean down there so imagine how self conscious I felt since. He only had sex with one other person before me and he didn't go down on her. He also doesn't like to finger or anything really freaky. I don't know if it's because I'm older now and bored but I want to be more outgoing in the bedroom. I've suggested it in the past and he acts all offended. He hates that I have a vibrator or like porn (which I hardly ever watch).  I feel like I'm missing out🙁.