So my boyfriend and I are having a baby, this is our first one and he's already stated when we first found out he doesn't want it, he's said he doesn't want to do anything for it or even help in any way unless it was something he didn't have to do much off. He's being a real jerk recently and has made me feel bad about being pregnant. Everyone is saying he'll change his mind as soon as he sees the baby for the first time when it's born, I'm really hoping for this.