Does anyone else experience this?

Mary • I am a photographer and love life. I am still looking for the right guy.
I call it a super period. I will have three or so months where I'm right on schedule with my cycle. Then it stars to come later and later until I skip a month or two. I then have around three to five days of light spotting fallowed by a week maybe two where I have nothing. Then an almost two weeks of a flow. Starting with five to seven days of super heavy flow (hence my calling it a super period), then a day or two of medium and ending with a couple of light days. I haven't been diagnosed with Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome but when I put my systems into WebMD that is the top thing that comes back. Ant help would be great. I was on birth control for six months and it helped but I don't want to be on pills for the rest of my single life and it would be nice to know what is going on so when I do find the right guy I know what to and how to tell him.