need advice!?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. We've lost a lot of heat in the bedroom and in the relationship. He wants more spontenaity, blowjobs, and he wants me to be the crazy girl I am when I am with my friends with him.

Please give me some ideas that could help. I hate giving BJs, what's a way to make it more enjoyable for me and him.

By the way recently in the past year I've lost my sex drive, know how to fix that?

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If he's going down on you you should be giving blow jobs. Go get some dress up stuff put it on. He's foolish to think he wants the girl u are with your friend to be the girl u are with him. Lol  
But 3 years is really soon to loose the spark. He has to do some research too it's not just you having to keep things spicy.

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Maybe at least give blow jobs a try. I'm sure he does things he doesn't like. You don't have to deep throat or anything! I know my husband would love when I randomly gave him road head. Of course I don't like giving blow jobs (I don't find it very fun at all 😂) but my husbands response to it made it worth it! Maybe catch him by surprise one day at home and ride him. Jump in the shower with him!Spontaneity goes a long way.

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Honestly, I've been with my husband for 9 years and 3 kids. We still very much have the spark. I do dress up for him sometimes, but mostly it's about remembering what it was like to date him, how hot it is to turn him on, and how much it makes me happy to please him. Sometimes I pretend he's my boyfriend! Ha! It's all mental. Remember what it used to be like and get it back there