I'm curious, after you have the baby, i know they say you have to wait 6-8weeks to have sex again or etc!

How long did you ladies wait or when did you know that it was okay to have sex?

I just realized that when valentine's day comes, me and my fiance won't be able to do anything most likely, sucks bc i love to surprise him and plus my birthday is in the beginning of March too! I'm hoping my body heals pretty good before then atleast! But, i want to make sure im completely healed and all anyway before we do have sex again, just sucks lol. But im curious how long you ladies waited or when you knew that it was okay to have sex? I mean any advice would help! I guess refresh my memory what you have to do to take care of yourself after birth? I get induced Monday the 16th to have my son! So again, just curious. Thank you♡