Am I wrong for not wanting the baby in the bed with us? I will be avoiding putting the baby in our bed unless it's absolutely necessary. We will keep her crib in our room for the first few months, but she will have her own room when we feel the time is right. My mom is trying to make me feel bad about it because she co-slept with me. She doesn't understand that I'm just not comfortable with it at all. Am I wrong for not wanting her in our bed? Does that make me a bad mom?