Crush, HELP PLS
Ok so, I'll start from the beginning I guess (this is long sorry)
((if you like fanfics then I guess you'd like this because it pretty much sounds like one))
So I started going to university at the start of 2016, and I would always pass a little cafe/kiosk in the train station at least twice a day on my way to and from my campus. Well, I never stopped at the cafe (because my favourite cafe was across the street) but whenever I would walk past this cafe, I would always share a quick glance with one of the workers there. Fast forward a few months, and we would wave at eachother whenever I'm passing, but I still never actually went into the cafe.
Fast forward to the start of this year - uni still hasn't started for the year, but I still venture into the city a few days a week just to relax at my campus on the internet. About, a few weeks ago, I was on my way to my favourite cafe, I found that it was still closed (due to Christmas holidays), so I decided to head back to the other side of the road to the cafe I would always pass but never actually had the courage (or interest) to order from.
This is where it gets interesting people.
I walked up to the front of the cafe, and there he was, cute Korean cafe guy, on his break, stuffing his face with food (my kinda guy!), he briefly looked up from his food, mouth full of food, and stared up me. Then, THEN, quickly stood up, and went behind the counter - his greeting was 'so, you finally decided to come in' and tbh I could barely speak because damn this guy is so attractive and cute and just jsjsjcjavqlspxlqn
ANWAY, he took my blushing fish face as a suggestion to move on, and he asked me what I would like. Me, being the awkward excuse of a human, forgetting all forms of proper communication, blurted out 'I have no idea what would you recommend', to which he replied by asking if I wanted a hot or cold drink, to which I replied by saying cold (I mean he was hot enough, I'm not usually this shallow plsdonthateme), he suggested that I should go for a milkshake, and I asked him what flavour I should have, and he said chocolate. Now, this guy, has a unbelievably beautiful smile, like, it's blinding omg, so the whole time I was pretty much speechless.
I paid for my drink and he made it, once he was done, he walked AROUND the counter (yes ladies around it, even though he could've passed it to me from behind the counter) and he said 'I hope you enjoy it, if so I'll see you next time'
Well you know what, I did go back (for the drink I swear, it was so milky and amazing)
Fast forward to last week (cause that makes sense) and I went in on, Tuesday, but, he wasn't there - which was OK!
I ordered a Chai latte and sat down infront of the counter again. Well, about a minute later, someone was standing next to me and said 'hey ya' - guess what, it was cute Korean cafe guy - I replied by saying 'Hi ya!'
Then, THEN, he walked behind the counter, stopped the guy half way though making my latte, and he finished it off, then walked AROUND the counter and gave me my drink whilst saying 'I hope you enjoy it miss, I'll see you next week'
And well, he saw me a few days later 😄
I had a hair appointment for Thursday morning, so I decided to get a bottle of water before my appointment, of course I went to the cafe, and when he saw me his face lit up (like a little puppy I swear omg), I bought the water and before I left I said 'I'm just getting my hair done, then I might come back in for a coffee?' and he said 'I'll be waiting' like, !!!!!!!
So (OK I swear please keep reading there's not much more I promise) after my haircut I came back in and he welcomed me with 'glad to see you again! what would you like?'
And I thought, ok Kelley you need to step up your game, so I gave him a $5 note and said 'suprise me, as long as its cold' and he looked so shocked, he asked if I was sure and I said 'yes, your drinks are amazing! I trust you' and his face lit up again and he began to make my surprise drink. About ten minutes later (he was really giving his all with making my drink) he walked around the counter and gave me a mixed berry and seed(?) smoothie, he told me to try it before I left, so I did, and apparently my reaction was priceless because when I said 'holy shit this is really good!' he was laughing so hard 😄
And before I left he said 'next time I'll make you something else, if you want', to which I replied 'I'm looking forward to it!'
OK so story time over, now for me asking for advice.
I may possibly have a small (read: definitely not small) crush on this guy, but I don't even know his name, or age (could be my age, 20 or maybe somewhere between 20-30, I really can't tell), but I really want to get to know him. Now my friends are all guys, and their advice was mostly 'suck his dick' and 'give him your number' - which is definitely not good advice, thankyou boys.
So I'm here to ask you lovely ladies: how do I lowkey find out his name, and possibly ask him out for a date?
Please help this clueless awkward being! 😫😅😄😆
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