first visit 😭

I have my first gynecologist appointment tomorrow at 11.  I'm scared shitless. There doing a ultrasound , a vaganal ultrasound, a pelvic exam and a Pap smear... I've never had any of these done. I'm really self conscious and slightly freaking out. I don't want a male that's not my husband all up in my woo ha... somebody tell me this isn't as bad as I think they are.