This is my 'not stressing month'

So, after 2 MCs in 4 months last year, and no success since then with doing opks and temping, taking vitamins, reducing my caffiene intake and even getting my man to give up alcohol for a while, I am now trying the 'don't stress and it will happen' approach. I have neve wanted something so badly that it hurts, but I don't know what else to do. Anyone else taking this approach this month? Be good to have a friend to help each other along as I know I'll struggle!!