In a month in a half from now I will be married to my fiance. I'm nervous because although on the wedding night it will be my first time, it won't be his. We've talked about the wedding night, well mostly I have. He wants to surprise me and do some really nice romantic things. But he won't tell me what, and I don't like surprises. He's been waiting for 15 months we got two more left before we get married and consummate. I'm just worried that he might get a little too excited and rough.