Is it considered losing your virginity if you have an orgasm but didn't actually have sex? My boyfriend and I "fool around" all the time. We've been together 1 year and 1 month and we've been doing this I'd say for at least 10 months. He is not a virgin but he knew before he asked me out that I planned on waiting until marriage and is perfectly okay with it and respects me so much. He even encourages me when I'm really wanting to forget about waiting, even though it's extremely hard for him too sometimes. Therefore we have not had vaginal sex, we don't even have condoms so we won't be tempted. (I'm not on any kind of birth control). I just can't keep my hands off of him and vice versa, but we continue to agree to wait until marriage.  I just want to hear some of your thoughts and opinions on this, thanks!!