Sex postpartum ?

So I had sex at 4 weeks PP with an episiotomy and it hurt so bad that it brought tears to my eyes but it wasn't a pain that I minded just the whole time I was worried about my stitches even my hubby checked me everyday for like a week and before during and after and he said everything is fine but idk I'm still scared and. I'm almost 5 weeks PP now. I'm just wondering has anyone else had sex yet and did you have a episiotomy or tear? And should I wait to try again or should we just go ahead a do it again (we want to try it with lube cause I get wet but it doesn't stay wet with a condom and friction) lol tmi but could really use some advice cause I've felt good down there ever since like two and a half weeks and we've been so passionate and eager to make love again.