Boyfriend problems

Just here to rant for a sec. My bf and I have been together almost 2 years and has really starting to get on my nerves. Hes acting more like a parent than he is a boyfriend and he doesn't understand that. I don't want to get birth control until I fully understand which one is best for me and what side effects it'll have but he's pressuring me everyday to call and make an appointment. And one of my teachers is always giving so much homework and I have to spend all night on it and it stresses me out. He's always bitching at me telling me I need to talk to her about it but its an honors class and she won't listen to me if I even wasted my breath on her. He's so annoying now😳