So I figured I should share my story because this seems like the one place to get endless support. I lost my baby on December 7th at 11 weeks and I still can't even process it all. One day everything is fine and the next your heart it completely shattered. I'm crying just trying to write this. As many times as people tell me it wasn't my fault I can't help but feel like it is. Especially because the day before was my first OB appointment and I asked if I could have an ultersound and they said the next appointment I'll have one and the very next day ..... they never gave me a reason why and wouldn't even do workups as to why because this is my first one. Doc's exact words " We really don't look at this as a problem until you've had 4" so now is just trying to move on the best I can it's hard for me and I know it may be hard for others proactively trying but have faith. You don't have to understand Gods'plan to trust it. I hope 2017 is the year for all of us out there. Miracles happen everyday.